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Rules of Good Etiquette for Queer Dating Chats

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Online dating is certainly growing in popularity, especially because of the ease of chatting with like-minded people. But so many people are still skeptical because they often end up landing on the “wrong” site. Truly, many people are harassed by creeps and worried about their personal information being misused. But the truth is that these issues can easily be avoided simply by joining an authentic dating site with vibrant chat rooms.

It is easier said than done, especially when you are mostly interested in queer dating and chatting. Unfortunately, there is hardly a rainbow flag of approval for those queer chat sites, making it difficult for many LGBTQ people to find love. The frustrations are true because so many queer singles still do not consider the rules of good etiquette when interacting through dating chats. 

The truth is that you can make any lesbian chat room work wonders for you just by following certain rules. Here is what you remember.

Educate Yourself about Lesbian Labels

If you are still new to the queer world and exploring your sexual identity but still want to find a good lesbian chat room to chat with like-minded people, it pays to familiarize yourself with different lesbian labels. The words “butch” and “femme” may probably be familiar to you. However, you might not be aware of the wonderful diversity of women who make up the lesbian world.

It is fine for lesbians to use their lesbian ‘type’ as a means of self-definition. However, you must keep in mind that not everyone fits neatly into preconceived categories and that you cannot judge someone solely by their outward appearance or social standing. And it is even more difficult when you are engaging in queer chats online since you have to leave so much to the imagination.

Studying the numerous lesbian labels and words you can encounter while on the hunt for a romantic partner is an excellent idea. At the absolute least, it will prepare you to talk to anyone in the future. Or it might help you figure out what kind of lesbian you are or would like to date.

Do Not Take So Long to Respond

An important rule for success is responding to your messages as soon as possible. Yeah, we understand it. You and your pals are out and about, and you do not want to offend anyone, so you choose to remain silent when you get a message online. 

Really, that is cool. However, that is not the point. It is more about when you are in bed watching TV, and you get a text and think, “Oh, I will respond later.” Do not make this mistake, especially when exploring the fragile world of queer dating chats.

Do Not Disappear in the Middle of a Chat

This is quite cruel, to say the least. Even more so if she is the type of girl that you are into. When you provide the impression of replying, as indicated by the appearance of the three dots, only to suddenly cut off further communication. Heartless. Definitely a monster.

Always Know What to Talk About 

Learning about your chatting partner’s “type” will surely help, but you should have a backup plan about things you can discuss while chatting. Again, dating sites offer some help because you can always check profiles and read about what your potential partner is into. 

Not knowing what to talk about could lead to prolonged moments of silence, sending her anxiety level through the roof. So, do some homework and know how to keep your chats interesting for ultimate dating success.

Stay Away from One-Word Response

You should never go with a one-word response to ensure a healthy chat with your potential lesbian partner. When you do that, you come across as rude and leave it to your partner to perceive in whatever way she likes. And you will lose it if you take it as passive-aggressive.

Show Some Excitement

It is important to show some excitement when engaging in queer dating chats. You need to make your partner feel how happy you are to connect with her. And it does not have to be difficult to achieve that through chats. Sometimes, all you have to do is switch to CAPS LOCK in your response. Similarly, you can play with exclamation points or send a few messages in a row to show your excitement.


Understanding how to go about interacting with a queer partner through chats can play a big role in making your dating experience more successful. Do not take everything for granted just because you know there are hundreds of other girls willing to chat. Focus on who you are chatting with now and make that connection work!

2 thoughts on “Rules of Good Etiquette for Queer Dating Chats

  1. Just stop already…nobody cares

  2. I think they should have more rainbow flag’s around the village. We know the fleet service building would like to put one up, hey why not. It’s there right.

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