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Reader says Too many Ridgewood parents hold their kids back because they are “young”, “small” or “not ready”

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So many people hold their kids back that they are ready for all day K because they are six years old.

Can’t have it both ways, hold them back and then demand full day K.

Lets be honest about this. Too many parents hold their kids back because they are “young”, “small” or “not ready”. I do not want all day K because it rewards this type of behavior. Some delusional parents see their kids as geniuses when they are really 6 year olds in kindergarten. Not gifted just at a different developmental stage. It used to be over aged boys, but now the parents og girls are getting into it.

Stop letting parents hold their kids back. When they come for registeation place them in the grade according to their cut off birthdate. No more gaming the system.

Let the 5 year olds have developmentally appropriate half day kindergarten and put the 6 year olds in first grade where they belong.

8 thoughts on “Reader says Too many Ridgewood parents hold their kids back because they are “young”, “small” or “not ready”

  1. They don’t hold their kids back because they are young, small or not ready.

    They hold them back because they want their kid to be the oldest, largest, and most socially and athletically dominant child in their class. They want to make sure their kid is always the Louisville Slugger, and never the ball.

    Nothing like setting your kid up to hit their peak in life sometime in middle school!

  2. It’s competitive. If you don’t hold your kid back, they will be outshone by the older ones. Takes years to catch up, especially physically for boys. Very bad for self-esteem

  3. They need full day K because they are 6 years old and should be in first grade.

    My guess is that at keast 25% of a kindergarten class are over age.

  4. Ha Ha self-esteem.
    Good one.

  5. In a similar thread, why are so many teachers pushing all-day K? They don’t realize teachers don’t set policy.

  6. It’s called “red-shirting”… heinous practice by parents who read Outliers and think they are raising future pro athletes…

  7. The teachers are pushing for it because their union sees full-day K as a boondoggle and a chance to have more full-time REA members who will push for above 2% wage increases, and additional cuts to healthcare and pension contributions in 2018 when the new contract expires. It’s all a REA/NJEA plot. Has NOTHING to do with our kids. Also remember, it’s not just extra salaries for all-day K… its pensions, platinum healthcare, tenure, etc. It’s a bit like how the police union vehemently defends the RPD’s “extra duty” practice for PSE&G and Verizon as no added cost to rate payers and taxpayers… of course it shows up in your monthly statement and in the RPD budget for both fueling and depreciating their vehicles. Really folks, when the union wants it, it’s BAD for taxpayers.

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