Casual dating is proven to have a positive impact both on our body and mind, so many people nowadays prefer to hook up without committing. But even if it sounds easy at first, finding someone for a casual date takes time and effort. To avoid misunderstanding and to make the process a bit easier, you must learn how to tell for sure that a girl is down for fun.
Evident Signs
So, let’s start with a few most evident signs since these are the easiest to read and impossible to confuse.
– You met on a hookup site
Of course, the most evident sign of her being ready to hook up with you is meeting her in places where people gather to seek casual dates. Online dating has made it possible for anyone looking for no-strings fun to meet someone like-minded and get naughty whenever and however they want. So, if you met your girl on an adult website, she’s one hundred percent down for fun. However, if you are still hesitant, take a closer look at her profile. Does it state that she’s not interested in a long-term relationship? Or maybe her profile pics are rather sexy and seductive? Or both? If so, you can bet she’s looking for someone to hook up with.
– Her speech is full of sexual innuendos
Name a more obvious sign of being ready to hook up than talking dirty. Exactly! You won’t get all flirty and explicit with someone you are not sexually attracted to. Most people tend to get carried away when conversing with someone they find sexually attractive and feel comfortable around, which leads to deep and sincere talk with loads of sexual innuendos. So, if a girl you are chatting with starts to bring up topics related to intimacy, revealing some of her small “secrets” along the way – boy, you are in luck because this is a green light.
– She invites you to her place
In any other situation, a girl inviting you to her place could mean anything, especially if you are just friends. It doesn’t always have to mean that she wants to get into your pants, after all. But it makes all the difference if we are talking about meeting a girl on a hookup site or if your communication is based on numerous hints. If, after obvious flirting for some time and finally having a date, she suggests “Do you want to go at my place?” – agree immediately; there’s something hot about to happen!
More Discreet Signs
Not all women are bold enough to be upfront with their desires, so they resort to more discreet hints. When meeting your girl for a date to test the waters, go for a venue where you can sit close to each other. It will create the right conditions for revealing whether she’s interested in hooking up. Look for the following hints:
– Getting closer to you and touching
Say, you are in a bar having drinks and chatting. If she tries to get as close to you as possible in the given conditions, she definitely finds you attractive. She may do that subconsciously, without even realizing, but if she leans closer when you talk, touches your arm when laughing, and overall, you notice that after a half hour of your date, you are almost squeezed together, that’s a good sign. Any woman who finds a man attractive and feels safe around him will try to get closer to him; it’s chemistry.
– Touching her mouth and lips or her neck
You’ve probably heard people say that sometimes your body language can tell a lot more than words. And this is a proven fact. A whole science of reading body signals exists, which can be used to determine if a person is lying, afraid, feeling tense, or the opposite – completely relaxed. However, you don’t have to be a qualified psychologist to tell if a woman feels aroused around you. For example, if she listens to you with a small mysterious smile while touching her lips, neck, and/or cleavage zone from time to time, she definitely has some dirty thoughts.
– Putting an extra effort to stay with you
The date is about to end, but she tries to find any excuse to stay a little bit longer. She offers to have another drink or maybe go somewhere else to prolong the night because, “Hey, don’t be so boring!” Well, she definitely craves your company, which means chances are she’s just too shy to invite you over directly. If you don’t want to lose the chance of hooking up with her, especially considering how determinedly she’s been trying to deliver her subtle message the whole evening, take the initiative and invite her first.
If you want to become successful in casual dating, it’s essential to learn how you can read people. Knowing signs of a girl being ready to get naughty with you will help you in achieving this goal.