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For parents, sacrifices worth it for children’s athletic careers


For parents, sacrifices worth it for children’s athletic careers

DECEMBER 28, 2014, 4:42 PM    LAST UPDATED: SUNDAY, DECEMBER 28, 2014, 8:19 PM

When he was 3 years old, Mohammad Abdelhamid told his mother that he was going to be a basketball player and – like the pros – buy a mansion.

His mother, Azza Abdelziz, took his ambitions to heart and raised him as a well-rounded athlete. He now plays three sports at Fort Lee High School – soccer, basketball and baseball – as well as participating in a private soccer club that travels all over the region.

Abdelziz, who laughed off the promise of a mansion, was full of encouragement Sunday as she watched him take on Paramus Catholic in the Jack Reilly Holiday Basketball Tournament, a season opener for a number of local teams hosted at Fort Lee High School. Also in attendance were relatives, friends and recruiters taking in the action as the warm bodies on the court pushed up the temperature in the gym.

But Abdelziz deserved as much applause from her son as she was heaping on him.

The sacrifices many parents in the crowd have made on behalf of their children’s athletic careers are as remarkable for their size as for their duration. Abdelziz, for example, said that over the past 10 years, she has hosted relatives at her house less and less due to her son’s game and practice schedule. She has also stuck with her job as a school bus driver because the hours are conducive to high school sports.

4 thoughts on “For parents, sacrifices worth it for children’s athletic careers

  1. Do these parents ever realize how great the odds are of there children actually making it in the sports world?

  2. Azza probably would be a Jayvee player at schools like Ramapo, Ridgewood, Old Tappan, etc.

    Perspective is important…..

  3. You have no idea how many lax players are expecting to be recruited. There is competition within our teams. Sophomores who only played on the freshman team last year are hoping for William and Mary scholarships. Parents are spending big bucks and traveling to MD and FL for games. Parent’s pride is on the line.

    The parents are too invested. The kids would do better looking for academic scholarships.

  4. Lacrosse – can’t hit a curveball and too slow for the hurdles.

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