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How Safe Are Our Crumbling Bridges And Vulnerable Buildings?

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America’s bridges need work.

November 20,2016
the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, So do some of the nation’s buildings – both old and new – that were designed to avoid collapsing during an earthquake or other major catastrophe, but aren’t quite up to the task of remaining inhabitable after disaster strikes.

“Earthquakes are possible just about any place, not just in California,” says Douglas P. Taylor, president of Taylor Devices (www.taylordevices.com), which manufactures seismic dampers that protect structures during such events as earthquakes and high winds.

“New York, Ohio, Pennsylvania and many other places that you don’t usually think about can have seismic activity as Oklahoma recently did.  If buildings, bridges and other structures aren’t designed to withstand the shock, they can endanger the lives of drivers and the building’s occupants.”

Taylor says these structural problems are more widespread than most people realize. Some of the issues include:

• Bridge aging and deterioration. Across the United States, 58,500 bridges are structurally deficient, according to a report by the American Road & Transportation Builders Association. That represents about 9.5 percent of the nation’s bridges. “That’s definitely a concern for the people who use those bridges every day,” Taylor says. From a technological standpoint they can be fixed, but Taylor says he worries the money to do so isn’t coming any time soon, at least in part because the nation’s debt makes it difficult for the government to make the appropriate investment in the nation’s infrastructure.
• Older buildings without proper earthquake-resistant engineering. Some older buildings aren’t designed to withstand a seismic event. For example, many of the old brownstone apartment buildings in New York have “virtually nothing holding them together if the building whips back and forth,” Taylor says. Anything made of brick or concrete also can be problematic.
• The limits of building codes. Current building codes require that a new building be constructed so it won’t collapse during a major earthquake. But even when they remain standing, buildings can sustain enough damage to cause them to be condemned and therefore unusable. “People think that if they move into a brand new building that meets all the modern building codes, that their building will perform well during earthquakes and they will be able to inhabit them immediately after a seismic event,” Taylor says. “They also think the contents of the building, including personal items, will be intact. This is simply not true.” In this case, he says, a lack of awareness may be a major factor in keeping the necessary fixes from happening.

“I think you can look at the nation’s vulnerability in this area as a bad news and good news situation,” Taylor says. “Clearly, the bad news is the potential hazard for people and property. The good news is that we’re not facing something that’s unsolvable. We as a nation just need to recognize that these problems exist and have a determination to address them.”

About Douglas P. Taylor

Douglas P. Taylor is president of Taylor Devices (www.taylordevices.com), which manufactures seismic dampers that protect structures during such events as earthquakes and high winds. He is inventor or co-inventor of 34 patents in the fields of energy management, hydraulics and shock isolation. In 2015, he was inducted into the Space Technology Hall of Fame by NASA and the Space Foundation.

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Thanksgiving Day 5K and Kids Fun Run

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November 19,2016
the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Glen Rock NJ, Thanksgiving Day 5K and Kids Fun Run in Glen Rock on Thanksgiving morning. It is going to be a wonderful family event and we are expecting a great turnout!

1. We are hosting the packet pick up in our Ridgewood store (11 N. Broad Street) for the three days leading up to Thanksgiving so it would be a great chance for the Ridgewood businesses to get involved and promote their brands/companies to the hundreds of runners that will be coming in to pick up their race packets and tshirts.
2. There is endless opportunity for the Ridgewood businesses to promote at the race.
3. Come out and run the race! There is a 5K (run/walk) and a Kids Fun Run. All levels are welcome to join in on the 5K. A lot of Ridgewood residents have already signed up but we really want to get the word out there that this fun family event is just around the corner.
4. Spread the word! As we all know, this is key to success so if people are busy Thanksgiving week and cannot participate, we would love to have everyone spread the word, hang posters in the stores, put lawn signs outside their stores/houses!

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11 N Broad St
Ridgewood, NJ
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Porch Light Production Announces Academy Performance Productions

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November 19,2016
the staff of the Ridgewood blog
Glen Rock NJ,  Porch Light Production Announces Academy Performance Productions. Academy Jr (Grades 1-5)
Fun, and enriching theater programs focus on building confidence, community and stage presence. Students are encouraged to be expressive and creative while building a strong foundation in acting, singing and dance. Open to all experience levels. All registered students are accepted. Auditions are held for casting purposes only.

James & the Giant Peach’
Rehearsals: Nov 30 – Jan 25, 2017
Wednesday & Friday 3:30PM – 5:30PM
Grades 1-5

Academy Jr Spring 2017 Musical

‘Shrek Jr’
Rehearsals: Mar 08 – May 04, 2017
Wed. & Fri. 3:30PM – 5:30PM
Grades 1-5

Porch Light Productions
555 Broad Street
Glen Rock, NJ 07452
(T) 201.857.3520
(E) [email protected]

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San Cristobal Quintessence Tasting Event at Tobacco Shop of Ridgewood

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November 18,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, the Tobacco Shop of Ridgewood will host a San Cristobal Quintessence tasting event on December 7th 2016 from 6:30 to 9:30 pm for the cost of $20.

Celebrated cigar-maker Jose “Pepin” Garcia embraces his remarkable talents as a world-class blender with San Cristobal Quintessence. Drawn from a luscious Ecuador Habano wrapper and the finest, premium aged binder and filler tobaccos grown on the Garcia family estates, Quintessence is patiently rolled in Pepin’s immaculate factory in Estelí, Nicaragua, in four classic formats. Captivating notes of molasses, coffee and black pepper intrigue the palate with a placid sweetness. Hints of dried fruit, figs and sugarcane gather in wonderful proportion to culminating spices. Cool, civil aromas emanate throughout a medium to full-bodied finish. San Cristobal Quintessence exemplifies Pepin’s rise to prominence with tasteful indulgence.

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Federation of Independent Businesses: Consumers plan to spend record amounts at small businesses during this year’s Small Business Saturday

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November 18,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

New Jersey NJ, Across the country, small businesses and consumers alike are getting excited to support their favorite local, independent businesses on Small Business Saturday, which takes place this year on November 26th. Results from the fifth-annual Small Business Saturday Consumer Insights Survey, released today by the National Federation of Independent Businesses (NFIB) and American Express, show that more consumers than ever are aware of Small Business Saturday (58% vs. the previous high of 55% in 2015). More than six in ten (62%) consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to shop locally on the day say the main reason they plan to shop at small retailers or eat at independently-owned restaurants is because they value the contributions small businesses make to their community.

“Small Business Saturday reminds consumers of how valuable small businesses are to our communities, and we are incredibly proud to be the founding partner.”

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“Since its inception, Small Business Saturday has brought national attention to supporting the local businesses we love,” said Elizabeth Rutledge, Executive Vice President, Global Advertising & Brand Management at American Express, which founded Small Business Saturday in 2010. “Small Business Saturday reminds consumers of how valuable small businesses are to our communities, and we are incredibly proud to be the founding partner.”

Held annually on the Saturday following Thanksgiving, Small Business Saturday was founded by American Express as a response to small business owners’ most pressing need: getting more customers through their doors, rallying communities to support local businesses and helping kick off a successful holiday sales period.

Planning to Put Their Money Where Their Mouth Is

Of consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday, 89% agree that the day encourages them to Shop Small all year long, not just during the holiday season. Nearly eight in ten (79%) consumers say they are willing to pay slightly more for an item if it is purchased from a small, independently-owned retailer as opposed to online or at a large retailer – on par with last year. And just how much are they planning to spend? Of those who are aware of Small Business Saturday and planning to shop and dine on the day, two-thirds (67%) say that they plan to spend at least $100 at small businesses on Small Business Saturday – a slight increase from 2015 (65%).

Among U.S. consumers, the Small Business Saturday Consumer Insights Survey found:

On average, one-third (33%) of their holiday shopping this year is expected to be done at small retailers or restaurants – on par with last year.
76% say they will visit at least one small business as part of their overall holiday shopping, on par with last year.
Additionally, 91% reported that supporting small, independently-owned bars and restaurants is important to them.

“Small businesses across the nation are often run by the friends, family and neighbors that we know so well, so supporting them is not only personal but critical to their success,” said NFIB CEO and President Juanita Duggan. “Partnering with American Express to promote the awareness and importance of shopping small is something we are very proud of, and this year, we look forward to another successful Small Business Saturday.”

Additional findings from the Small Business Saturday Consumer Insights Survey include:

63% of consumers who are willing to pay slightly more for an item if purchased from a small, independently-owned retailer as opposed to online or at a large retailer say that in exchange for paying a higher price, they expect better customer service from small, independently-owned businesses.
Nearly half (48%) of consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to Shop Small on the day say they expect to spend more on Small Business Saturday this year than last year – up from 45% in 2015, and the highest amount yet recorded.
Consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to shop on the day say they plan to support many different types of small businesses on the day, including clothing/accessories/shoe stores (45%), restaurants/bars/pubs (41%) and bakeries (39%).

Neighborhood Champions and the Small Business Saturday Coalition Drive Excitement for the Day

Grassroots support for Small Business Saturday is largely driven by Neighborhood Champions, a program of advocates for Small Business Saturday comprised of small businesses, business associations, local Chambers of Commerce and other community organizers who help to rally their neighborhoods on the day. To date, more than 6,400 Neighborhood Champions – an increase of 56% percent from 2015 – have signed up to plan activities and events to draw consumers to commercial districts across the U.S., leading up to and on Small Business Saturday. In fact, 45% of consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to shop say they plan to attend a community event in celebration of the day.

Another important group that drives participation on the day is the Small Business Saturday Coalition. Led by Women Impacting Public Policy (WIPP), the Small Business Saturday Coalition was created in 2011 to help amplify the Shop Small message. The Coalition is comprised of national, state and local associations that help coordinate Small Business Saturday activities with merchants, consumers and small business owners.

Show Your Love for Small Businesses on Social Media

Each year consumers have made it a tradition to share their Small Business Saturday experiences on social media. This year, consumers and small businesses across the nation are encouraged to show their love for their favorite independent businesses by using the #ShopSmall, #SmallBizSat and #DineSmall hashtags on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

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Reader says The taxpayers don’t want any garage on Hudson street

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We should be honest about what is driving this endless discussion.Note last massively expensive boondoggle on Hudson Street which took an unprecedented Referendum that our own Mayor and management was
Involved in those petitions and steering.

The taxpayers don’t want any garage on Hudson street..it will be a money crime and urban blight as any transit center garage becomes..look at any similar models.It will attract out of towners to flog our streets with transitional commuters not interested in most businesses outside of Coffee grab and go small shops near the train station.

ReLine and pave the existing surface lots at Hudson,Cottage place and the central district lots . Allocate some employee parking and incent those
Employers to enforce that accommodation .yes and everyone will have a walk a bit more that’s the Vallet services who wisk those visitors away
from ridgewood despite the dreams of the small shops to attract walking
Customers who might take a look or pick up a specialty item on the way to their cars parked on surface lots or God forbid at the train station on weekends that almost always have visitor and resident parking after six.

My priority is not to make the restaurants happy on my dime/taxes and fees in ridgewood drive the Boomers to cash out and leave.Lets get a grip on this endless parking discussion..no less the possible housing boondoggles that Englewood Morristown and other Towns have suffered

We don’t want to be a Transit Village,we want to be a smarter Ridgewood
Town leaders figure this out and out Taxpayer first( not restaurants for a change ) lets wish our new management Luck.Middle ground solutions needed..Uber logistics on short trips is taking over the world.

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CEO Rick Claydon to Retire from the Ridgewood YMCA after 40 years of service

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November 19,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, Chief Executive Officer, Rick Claydon, announced his decision to conclude his forty year tenure at the Ridgewood YMCA effective December 31, 2016. Claydon has served as Ridgewood YMCA CEO for the last twenty four years.

YMCA Board President Michael Davis said, “We’re incredibly grateful to Rick for all that he has accomplished at the YMCA and thank him for his many years of dedicated service to the community”.

“I am proud and thankful to have served this YMCA and this community since I began as a Y instructor in 1976,” Claydon said. “For more than four decades, I’ve been honored to build relationships with so many talented and committed volunteers, staff, donors and community partners, who have supported, guided and encouraged me throughout my career. More importantly, they’ve strengthened the very foundation of this community by bringing incredible programs and services to so many.”

The Ridgewood YMCA has served the community since 1902 and today engages over twenty thousand adults and children annually from its Oak Street location and Camp Bernie resident camp. The Y also continues to grow its annual giving campaign each year in an effort to meet the needs of the community and insure that its vital programming and services are available to all those who need them.

 

Dear Friends,

After 40 years at the Ridgewood YMCA, including twenty four years as CEO, I have announced my decision to retire from the Y, effective December 31, 2016.

I am so proud and thankful to have served this YMCA and this community since I began as a Y instructor in 1976.

For more than four decades, I’ve been honored to build relationships with so many talented and committed volunteers, staff, donors and community partners, who have supported, guided and encouraged me throughout my career. More importantly, they’ve strengthened the very foundation of this community by bringing incredible programs and services to so many.

The Ridgewood YMCA has served the community since 1902 and today engages over twenty thousand adults and children annually from its Oak Street location and Camp Bernie resident camp. The Y also continues to grow its annual giving campaign each year in an effort to meet the needs of the community, and insure that its vital programming and services are available to all those who need them. I am confident that the Y will continue to thrive and flourish under the new leadership of Ernest Lamour.

I would also like to this opportunity to acknowledge John Duke, Assistant Branch Director of the Y, who will also be retiring at the end of this year. After 32 years at the Y, John is a familiar face and friend to so many in the community and I would like to thank him for his exceptional service to our organization and to the community.

Lastly, I would like to thank everyone who has supported the Ridgewood YMCA throughout my many years here. It is the people of this community that make the YMCA such a special place and allow us to do what we do, furthering our cause in the areas of youth development, healthy living and social responsibility.

Sincerely,

Rick Claydon

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Ridgewood beats back Montclair 31-20 With 4th Quarter Come from Behind Victory

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November 19,2016
the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, the Ridgewood Maroons scored 24 unanswered fourth quarter points to defeat Montclair, 31-20, preserving their undefeated season at the North Jersey, Section 1, Group 5 semifinals at Ridgewood.
Ridgewood will now take on third-seeded Passaic Tech in the sectional final on the weekend of Dec. 2-4. Last year in the final Passaic Tech beat Ridgewood, 27-0.

Montclair had led 14-7 at halftime behind its explosive offense and very opportunistic defense. Down 20-7 in the fourth quarter , Ridgewood Quarterback Jack Barclay connected with Drew Granski on a 54-yard touchdown reception  making it a 20-14 game. With that ,the momentum shifted to the Maroons recovering a fumble on the first play from scrimmage on Montclair’s ensuing possession then ,scoring another touchdown .

The Ridgewood defense forced a punt by Montclair and then on a 3rd-and-8 from the Montclair 48, Barclay connected with Dan Romero for a 35-yard catch.Zach Feagles finished the drive with his second five-yard score to put Ridgewood ahead 28-20. Another fumble by Montclair was just icing on the cake giving Ridgewood a field goal to pull out a win .
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Ridgewood seeking solutions to parking problems

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Mark Krulish , Staff Writer, @Mark_Krulish5:44 p.m. EST November 17, 2016

The Ridgewood Village Council last week defeated an ordinance that would have restored parking on one side of Pomander Walk during the day, but the need for a comprehensive solution to the parking problem in the area remains, according to village officials.

During discussion at the Nov. 9 council meeting, Deputy Mayor Michael Sedon said the council needed to conduct a study that would look at the broader picture in the area, rather than focusing on one or two streets, a sentiment echoed by Councilman Ramon Hache.

https://www.northjersey.com/story/news/bergen/ridgewood/2016/11/17/ridgewood-seeking-parking-solutions/93965952/

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President-Elect Donald J. Trump Selects U.S. Senator Jeff Sessions for Attorney General, Lt. Gen. Michael Flynn as Assistant to the President for National Security Affairs and U.S. Rep. Mike Pompeo as Director of the Central Intelligence Agency

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NOVEMBER 18, 2016
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(New York, NY) – President-elect Donald J. Trump today announced that he intends to nominate U.S. Senator Jeff Sessions to serve as Attorney General and U.S. Rep. Mike Pompeo as Director of the Central Intelligence Agency.  Lt. Gen. Michael Flynn has been selected to be the Assistant to the President for National Security Affairs.

U.S. Senator Jeff Sessions has dedicated his life to public service. He has a distinguished legal career and has served as both the U.S. Attorney for the Southern District of Alabama and Alabama Attorney General prior to his service in the U.S. Senate. He has been one of President-elect Trump’s trusted advisors on the campaign and will now continue his service as our nation’s chief law enforcement officer.

“It is an honor to nominate U.S. Senator Jeff Sessions to serve as Attorney General of the United States,” said President-elect Trump. “Jeff has been a highly respected member of the U.S. Senate for 20 years. He is a world-class legal mind and considered a truly great Attorney General and U.S. Attorney in the state of Alabama. Jeff is greatly admired by legal scholars and virtually everyone who knows him.”

“I am humbled to have been asked by President-elect Trump to serve as Attorney General of the United States,” said U.S. Senator Sessions. “My previous 15 years working in the Department of Justice were extraordinarily fulfilling. I love the Department, its people and its mission. I can think of no greater honor than to lead them. With the support of my Senate colleagues, I will give all my strength to advance the Department’s highest ideals. I enthusiastically embrace President-elect Trump’s vision for ‘one America,’ and his commitment to equal justice under law. I look forward to fulfilling my duties with an unwavering dedication to fairness and impartiality.”

Lt. Gen. Michael Flynn, a retired United States Army Lieutenant General and former director of the Defense Intelligence Agency, assumes the position of National Security Advisor with a decorated career of more than 35 years in service to our nation. He served as President-elect Trump’s top military advisor during the campaign and will now continue providing expert advice and support to the President-elect as his National Security Advisor.

“I am pleased that Lieutenant General Michael Flynn will be by my side as we work to defeat radical Islamic terrorism, navigate geopolitical challenges and keep Americans safe at home and abroad,” said President-elect Trump. “General Flynn is one of the country’s foremost experts on military and intelligence matters and he will be an invaluable asset to me and my administration.”

“I am deeply humbled and honored to accept the position as National Security Advisor to serve both our country and our nation’s next President, Donald J. Trump,” said Lieutenant General Flynn.

Congressman Mike Pompeo, representing Kansas’ Fourth Congressional District, is a former active duty cavalry officer in the U.S. Army, graduated first in his class from the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, received his J.D. from Harvard Law School and was an editor of the Harvard Law Review. He currently serves on the House Intelligence Committee, which oversees America’s intelligence-gathering efforts.

“I am proud to nominate Congressman Mike Pompeo as Director of the Central Intelligence Agency,” said President-elect Trump. “He has served our country with honor and spent his life fighting for the security of our citizens. Mike graduated number one in his class at West Point and is a graduate of Harvard Law School where he served as an editor of the Harvard Law Review. He will be a brilliant and unrelenting leader for our intelligence community to ensure the safety of Americans and our allies.”

“I am honored to have been given this opportunity to serve and to work alongside President-elect Donald J. Trump to keep America safe. I also look forward to working with America’s intelligence warriors, who do so much to protect Americans each and every day,” said Congressman Pompeo.

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Steve Bannon Interviewed: “It’s About Americans Not Getting F—ed Over”

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by Tyler Durden
Nov 18, 2016 1:52 PM

Moments ago, the Hollywood Reporter released the much anticipated Michael Wolff interview with Steve Bannon, the controversial president-elect’s chief strategist. As a preface, Wolff reveals that Bannon – unlike virtually anyone else in the “credible” media – predicted exactly how things would play out:

In late summer when I went up to see Steve Bannon, recently named CEO of the Donald Trump presidential campaign, in his office at Trump Tower in New York, he outlined a preposterous-sounding scenario. Trump, he said, would do surprisingly well among women, Hispanics and African-Americans, in addition to working men, and hence take Florida, Ohio, Pennsylvania and Michigan — and therefore the election. On Nov. 15, when I went back to Trump Tower, Bannon, promoted by the president-elect to chief strategist for the incoming administration, and by the media as the official symbol of all things hateful and virulent about the coming Trump presidency, said, as matter-of-factly as when he first sketched it out for me, “I told you so.”

Perhaps Trump naming Bannon “chief strategist” is not a bad idea.

Below we picked a few of the most notable excerpts from the interview, starting with Wolff’s description of what he saw on the day he visited Trump. He writes “the New York Times, in a widely circulated article, will describe this day at Trump Tower as a scene of “disarray” for the transition team.” It appears the NYT was being a source of fake news again:

“In fact, it’s all hands on: Mike Pence, the vice president-elect and transition chief, and Reince Priebus, the new chief of staff, shuttling between full conference rooms; Jared Kushner, Trump’s son-in-law and by many accounts his closest advisor, conferring in the halls; Sen. Jeff Sessions in and out of meetings on the transition team floor; Rudy Giuliani upstairs with Trump (overheard: “Is the boss meeting-meeting with Rudy or just shooting the shit?”), and Bannon with a long line of men and women outside his corner office. If this is disarray, it’s a peculiarly focused and organized kind.”

Why did Wolff pick Bannon as the subject of his interview: simple – he is the brains of the operations, the man whose job is to make the Trump regime “intellectually and historically coherent.”

 

https://www.zerohedge.com/news/2016-11-18/steve-bannon-interviewed-issue-now-about-americans-looking-not-get-f%E2%80%94ed-over?utm_content=buffer61cdd&utm_medium=social&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_campaign=buffer

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Ridgewood : Is Grandma being scammed?

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November 18th 2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, Do you have any relatives over age 65? Have they been warned about the grandma scam?

Here’s how the grandma scam works: A call from a younger person is made to the targeted older person, often at night, after the aging person is asleep. Half awake, grandma answers the phone and the scammer claims to be the grandchild who says he’s in trouble and he needs financial help. Grandma is concerned and wires cash to the scammer. It often times takes days until she realizes she has been scammed.

What’s the takeaway: Your relatives can be easily tricked under the right circumstances. Wanting a call from grandkids is the starting point for scammers and they are triggered by an emotional response to the plea for help.

Millions of dollars are lost this way, in smaller amounts at a time. One way to combat the scam is to be prepared to ask the caller a question only a real grandchild would know: the name of a pet, a parent’s birth date or a nickname.

That’s where Carolyn Rosenblatt, a registered nurse and elder law attorney, and Dr. Mikol Davis, a geriatric psychologist, come in. Rosenblatt and Davis, co-authors of The Family Guide to Aging Parents: Answers to Your Legal, Financial, and Healthcare Questions (www.agingparents.com) and Succeed with Senior Clients: A Financial Advisor’s Guide to Best Practices (www.aginginvestor.com), can provide comments for articles you are working on or write exclusive articles on this topic for your publication.

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How To Help Children Stay Off The Naughty List Year-Round

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November 18,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, It’s that time of year again when beleaguered parents constantly remind disobedient children that it’s more important than ever to do the right thing.

Otherwise, they could end up on Santa’s notorious naughty list – the one specially reserved for kids who fight with siblings, refuse to do their homework, throw temper tantrums and don’t eat their vegetables.

While banishment to the naughty list has long been a handy tool in the disciplinary arsenal, any responsible parent wants their children to be good the rest of the year, too, when the threat of empty stockings holds less sway over those impressionable minds.

“I suspect most children deep down want to do the right thing, but they struggle with temptation,” says K.J. Hales, author of It’s Hard to Be Good, the first volume in the Ellie the Wienerdog (www.elliethewienerdog.com) series of educational picture books for children.

“A lot of it comes down to self-control – being able to control both your emotions and your actions when things don’t go your way or you don’t get what you want.”

Hales, who creates teachers’ guides and educational activities to go along with the lessons in her books, says the earlier parents start teaching children to do the right thing, the better.

She says some of the ways they can reinforce good behavior and discourage bad behavior include:

• Be generous with praise. Don’t underestimate the importance of your words. It’s easy to notice when children do the wrong thing and to chastise them about it. But take note when they do the right thing, too, and praise their good choices or good behavior.  “Everyone loves words of approval and children will want to please you as a result,” Hales says.
• Make good choices a fun activity. One way to encourage good decisions could be to set aside one week in which each day you ask your children to write or draw about a good decision they made or they saw someone else make. Hales says this is an activity she suggests for classroom teachers, but it can work in the home as well. Be sure to discuss those good decisions with the children.
• Reward them. Discipline so often focuses on punishments for bad behavior, but children should also be rewarded for good behavior. This doesn’t have to be anything elaborate or expensive. A reward could be a picnic in the park or a favorite dessert after dinner.

“I’m sure every parent wants their child to gain independence, grow emotionally and learn to make good decisions about their own behavior,” Hales says. “And this is important 365 days a year, not just in the weeks before Santa Claus comes to town.”

About K.J. Hales

K.J. Hales (www.ellietheweinerdog.com) is author of the Ellie the Wienerdog series of educational children’s books for children. The first volume in the series is It’s Hard to Be Good. The Ellie character is based on Hales’ own dachshund also named Ellie.

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A lot of nonvoters are mad at the election results. If only there were something they could have done!

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By Philip Bump November 16 at 9:30 AM

Of America’s 320 million-odd residents, only about three-quarters are eligible to vote (mostly because they’re over the age of 18). Of the group that could vote in the presidential election, the U.S. Election Project’s Michael McDonald estimates that about 58.1 percent did — meaning that 41.9 percent of eligible Americans didn’t vote last week.

Using the most recent national splits from the Cook Political Report’s Dave Wasserman, that means that Donald Trump was elected president with the support of fewer than 1 in 5 Americans.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-fix/wp/2016/11/16/a-lot-of-non-voters-are-mad-at-the-election-results-if-only-there-was-something-they-could-have-done/?Tid=sm_fb