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Fair Lawn Mayor Says the Media Got the Story All Wrong

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Fair Lawn NJ, Fair Lawn Mayor Gail Rottenstrich posted on Facebook on Monday about a story “accusing Fair Lawn High School of banning the wearing of yellow ribbons as a symbol of support for the return of the hostages brutally taken from Israel one year ago.”

the entire unedited Facebook post:
“Accusations of Banning Yellow Ribbon in Fair Lawn Schools Are Untrue
Since the 1979 Iran hostage crisis, the yellow ribbon has been a symbol of hope for the safe return of hostages. Between yesterday and today a story has been inaccurately and widely circulated accusing Fair Lawn High School of banning the wearing of yellow ribbons as a symbol of support for the return of the hostages brutally taken from Israel one year ago. As the Superintedent’s statement below says, the yellow ribbon has not been banned, and students wore it today to school without incident and without censure.
The legal responsibilities of the Borough, Mayor and Council do not overlap with the Fair Lawn School District or Board of Education, so I do not speak on behalf of the Borough here in an official capacity. However, the accusations of Antisemitism being trafficked are intentionally inflammatory and must be addressed, and I feel it is my moral responsibility to do so as the Mayor of Fair Lawn. And as a proud Jew. And as the wife of an Israeli second generation Holocaust survivor, and the mother of third generation survivors who all graduated from Fair Lawn Schools. And as a person with many, many family members and friends in Israel who have been devastated by the events of October 7th and in the year since, and who are currently under attack.
Antisemitism and all forms of hate are actively and consistently opposed in Fair Lawn. For years, the Mayor and Council have spoken from the dais and through every other outlet available against Antisemitism. The Council, working with the Community Relations Advisory Committee, has made the words “Hate Has No Home In Fair Lawn” more than a slogan, but our reality. But as toxic Antisemitism and anti-Israel sentiments and incidents have risen to an all time high, we need to continue to loudly voice our support for the community and ensure the physical and emotional safety of our residents.
Last night I spoke at an event sponsored by IAC and Operation Israel commemorating the October 7th massacre and hostage taking. I asked the members of our community to show support for one another, and for Israel, not by scrolling endlessly on our phones, but by taking real actions. To tell our story not with anger, not with hate, not by reacting and re-posting, but by planting seeds of hope.” I still believe that is our best way forward. But clearly we have much more work to do.
I am not going to specifically address the events of last Wednesday except to say that the accusations made have been contradicted by Jewish students who were present.
I invite further dialogue and encourage you to contact me at Mayor@Fairlawn.org. We are here for you.”

A Message to the Fair Lawn Public Schools Community

October 7, 2024

Dear Fair Lawn Community,

We write to provide important clarification in light of recent media coverage regarding the October 2nd Club Fair at Fair Lawn High School. Unfortunately, the article in question is inaccurate – it does not include all of the facts or share the actual context of the situation. To ensure transparency and provide a complete picture, the district is sharing this update with our community.

Fair Lawn High School’s Club Fair is a cherished tradition, where over 60 student organizations come together to showcase their activities and engage peers in participation. The event is organized with the oversight of faculty advisors and school administration, and all clubs receive equal guidance. All clubs follow the same rules and procedures regarding participation. The Club Fair is an opportunity for students to advertise their clubs through displays and to seek new members. Clubs are permitted to exhibit their organizations through their displays and messaging.

During this year’s Club Fair, both the Muslim Student Association (MSA) and the Jewish Student Union (JSU) were asked to make adjustments to items that had not been part of their original displays. The decision to ask both groups to modify their displays was made in response to the disruptive impact that certain items were having on the learning environment. The school did not take any position with regard to certain symbols or items that were added to those clubs’ displays but simply asked both clubs to restore their displays to their original content. The school appropriately ensured that the Club Fair event provided an open opportunity for students to explore the various clubs on display.

We are very proud to note that both the MSA and JSU are actively involved in the Anti-Defamation League’s (ADL) “No Place for Hate” initiative. In fact, student ambassadors from both groups played a vital role in fostering dialogue during the Club Fair event. Our students’ leadership and efforts to mediate certain concerns helped maintain a respectful atmosphere. We commend those students for their positive contributions. However, due to the disruption of the event and heightened emotions surrounding the displays, both groups were reminded to follow the event guidelines to ensure the smooth operation of the Club Fair event. While our student ambassadors made commendable efforts to resolve the conflict through peer mediation, the administration ultimately determined that direct intervention was necessary. That said, it is also important to note that no students were disciplined in connection with these adjustments and that the wearing of yellow ribbons by students is permitted.

Fair Lawn High School is proud to uphold a zero-tolerance policy toward hate in any form. As part of our ongoing commitment to the ADL’s No Place for Hate initiative, our administrators, staff, and students are united in standing against antisemitism and all forms of hate. We remain focused on building an inclusive community where every individual feels valued and respected. Student leaders continue to step up, inspiring their peers to be upstanding citizens, both inside and outside of school. We look forward to continuing this important work.

Fair Lawn is a diverse community, and we ensure that our schools, including Fair Lawn High School, provide an inclusive environment, supporting all students. We collaborate closely with various stakeholders to address community concerns, including local religious leaders, the Anti-Defamation League (ADL), the Council on American-Islamic Relations (CAIR), and other groups to address sensitive issues with thoughtfulness and inclusivity. Moving forward, we will continue discussions with key stakeholders, including student ambassadors and the Community Leadership Council, in our ongoing efforts to foster an environment where diverse perspectives are respected and shared.

As a district, we remain dedicated to promoting peace, open dialogue, and mutual respect. Thank you for your support as we work together to maintain a welcoming and respectful environment for all.

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4 thoughts on “Fair Lawn Mayor Says the Media Got the Story All Wrong

  1. One of the vice principals is a dei hire-black female -was harassing the Jewish students. In Fair Lawn, where 40% of the residents are Jewish. She’ll be gone. Just for being stupid.

    1. Good thing for her blacks can’t be racist.

  2. Yellow ribbons? Really? Yellow? Think about this one folks.

  3. Tony Orlando thinks the yellow ribbons are fine.

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