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RIDGEWOOD DOWNTOWN FOR THE HOLIDAYS – TREE LIGHTING – DECEMBER 2

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Downtown for the Holidays and Tree Lighting Celebration- 31th Anniversary

Friday, December 2, 2016

Early event – “for the kids”

5:30-6:45pm – Santa in the Park for the “wee tots”

along with live entertainment by the “clock”, in the stores and restaurant along E. Ridgewood Ave.

Featuring the RHS Marching Band, RHS Carolers, RHS Orchestra, Taekowondo all in.

5:30-7PM BIG DISCOUNT SHOPPING at many stores in Ridgewood, www.experienceridgewood.com

for participating stores.

7-8pm “on stage-live”

Live Entertainment and Tree Lighting Celebration

Featuring: performances by Porch Light Productions, Art of Motion, RHS Marching Band,

Taekowondo all in.

8:00-9:00pm “merriment” on E. Ridgewood Ave.

Shh – Santa will be back in the Park

Lots of music on the Avenue

Restaurant reservations suggested.

Saturday, December 3th, 2016

8am-Breakfast with Santa at The Office reservations 201-652-1070

10:00am-2pm – Santa arrives at Columbia Bank in a fire truck with gifts for all

children attending – 60 S. Broad St.

10:30AM FREE KIDS Movie at the Bowtie Warner Theatre-featuring a classic Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory.

2:00-4:00pm Meet Santa at his house – Memorial Park at Van Nest Square-weather permitting

Saturday, December 10, 17 and 24

12/10/16 Breakfast with Santa at The Office reservations 201-652-1070 (12/10/16 only)

12Noon-3:00pm Meet Santa at his house – Memorial Park at Van Neste Square

12N-2pm Meet Santa at his house-Memorial Park at Van Neste Square-weather permiting

For more information call 201-445-2600 [email protected] www.experienceridgewood.com

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Ridgewood High School New Players present You Can’t Take It With You

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November 21,2016

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Ridgewood NJ, RHS New Players present You Can’t Take It With You: December 8, 9, 10. Tickets on sale November 21 at www.rhsnewplayers.com

You Can’t Take It with You is a comedic play in three acts by George S. Kaufman and Moss Hart. The original production of the play premiered on Broadway in 1936, and played for 838 performances.

The play won the 1937 Pulitzer Prize for Drama, and was adapted for the screen as You Can’t Take It with You, which won the Academy Award for Best Picture and Best Director.

 

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Make the Holidays Bright at RidgeCrest in Ridgewood

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November 20th 2016
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Ridgewood NJ, Join us in making this holiday season a little brighter for your neighbors in need at RidgeCrest Senior Housing by making a donation towards our upcoming holiday activities and special events which include:

Thanksgiving Day Luncheon
Deck the Halls Dinner and Decorating Event
Cookies, Carols and Crafts Activities
Hanukkah Celebration
Christmas Celebration
New Year’s Celebration

Please make checks payable to
The Ridgewood Senior Citizen Housing Corp., Inc.
with RidgeCrest Activities noted in the memo

For more inforamtion please contact our activity and resource coordinator at [email protected]

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TUBACHRISTMAS coming to Ridgewood

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November 18,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, For those who are new to TUBACHRISTMAS, it is an event that allows tuba and euphonium players of all ages and abilities to come together to play holiday music specifically arranged for their instruments. The first TUBACHRISTMAS took place at New York City’s Rockefeller Plaza Ice Rink on Sunday, December 22, 1974. Since then TUBACHRISTMAS events have been held all over the world.

This year’s event in conjunction with the second concert in the Ridgewood Concert Band’s (RCB)34th Season promises to be an exciting night of music for audience and musicians alike. TUBACHRISTMAS participants will rehearse and then will be invited to enjoy the RCB portion of the program, which will include Commando March (Barber), Yiddish Dances, and Nutcracker Suite (Tchaikovsky). Tuba soloist Mike Salzman will also be featured. The concert will conclude with the TUBACHRISTMAS performance of carols arranged for tuba and euphoniums.

4:00 pm – Registration Opens
5:00 pm – Rehearsal
6:30 pm – Dinner
7:30 pm RCB/NJWS Concert
Post Concert Tuba Christmas Performance

Cost to Participate: $10

What is Included:
-TubaChristmas 2016 Pin
-Participation in Rehearsal and Performance
-Complimentary entrance into RCB/NJWS Concert on December 9

What to Bring:
-Your Instrument
-TubaChristmas Carol Book (available for purchase at event)
-Music Stand

What to Wear:
-Festive Clothing

Registration:
-Pre-Register online: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/BM5CK6X
-On-Site Registration will be available if capacity has not been reached in pre-registration.

Friday, December 9 at 4 PM – 9:30 PM
West Side Presbyterian Church Ridgewood, NJ
6 S Monroe St, Ridgewood, New Jersey 07450

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Ridgewood Open Houses for November 20th 2016

1643943.1 MLS # 1643943
590 Cliff St, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
2 Bedroom, 2 Full Bath, Ranch
Ghada Abbasi, Sales Associate
Coldwell Banker, Ridgewood

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 4:00 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1641133.1 MLS # 1641133
634 Wyndemere Ave, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
3 Bedroom, 1 Full Bath,
1 Half Bath, Col
Kristin Gildea Fox, Sales Associate
Marron Gildea Realty, Inc. Ridgewood

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 4:00 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1645024.1 MLS # 1645024
356 Franklin Ave, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
4 Bedroom, 3 Full Bath, Col
Angele Ekert, Sales Associate
Keller Williams Village Square Realty

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 4:00 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1639914.1 MLS # 1639914
165 Kemah Rd, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
3 Bedroom, 2 Full Bath, Col
Nicholas R. Alutin, Sales Associate
Keller Williams Village Square Realty

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 4:00 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1639467.1 MLS # 1639467
620 Albert Pl, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
3 Bedroom, 2 Full Bath,
1 Half Bath, Col
Jeff Vander Molen, Sales Associate
Terrie O’Connor Realtors-Wyckoff

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 4:00 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1626762.1 MLS # 1626762
571 Knollwood Rd, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
6 Bedroom, 4 Full Bath, Ranch
David Shein, Sales Associate
Anhalt Realty

  • Open House: 12:00 P.M. – 1:30 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1645061.1 MLS # 1645061
442 Van Buren St, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
5 Bedroom, 3 Full Bath,
1 Half Bath, Col
James Collins, Sales Associate
Coldwell Banker, Alpine/Closter

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 4:00 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1620561.1 MLS # 1620561
309 Beechwood Rd, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
4 Bedroom, 3 Full Bath,
1 Half Bath, Col
Linda Aktar, Broker Associate
Tarvin Realtors

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 4:30 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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1642179.1 MLS # 1642179
296 Manor Rd, Ridgewood, NJ 07450
6 Bedroom, 7 Full Bath,
1 Half Bath, Col
Donnamarie Giaccio, Broker Associate
Century 21 Calabrese Realty

  • Open House: 1:00 P.M. – 3:00 P.M. Sun. 11/20
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Readers suggest , The Ridgewood “parking problem” is all about laziness

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The Ridgewood “parking problem” is all about laziness, where people want to find a space on a Friday night or Saturday right in the prime area of the CBD. Heaven forbid that they have to walk two blocks, or even 10 minutes from their actual house.

No garage required. The town has a wonderful design. The original design trumps the shop keepers. That’s what makes Ridgewood what it is, a charming quaintish historical architecture downtown. Some business will make it, some won’t.

By the way, what no one says is that there are many times in any mall and I am talkin WestField, Fashion Center, Paramus Park, when it is difficult to find an up close parking spot near your favorite store, and sometimes any parking spot. No one says that. So why shouldn’t it be crowded in tiny Ridgewood downtown.

I mean, hey, you walk the WHOLE downtown and I’ll tell you folks, it doesn’t count as an exercise walk to prevent heart disease and cancer , the heart organization and cancer society says is necessary for good health. I mean it is that tiny. So what the f..k.

Take a walk those who want a parking garage. Meaning Go Away!

Upon further review, there is no parking problem in Ridgewood. While parking in town can be occasionally inconvenient, there has never been a need for the 5 story structure that nearly got built.

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How To Survive Retirement In A Pension-less Society

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November 18,2016

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Ridgewood NJ, Most people nearing retirement have had to adapt to a changing world along the way.

At one time, retirement rested on what financial professionals like to refer to as a three-legged stool – Social Security, savings and a pension.

That stool went wobbly, though, when most private-sector pensions began to disappear.

“Years ago, the idea was that your employer and the government would take care of you,” says Chad Slagle, a Registered Investment Advisor and president of Slagle Financial, LLC (www.slaglefinancial.com).

“But those days are gone. Now the burden is on each individual to make sure they’re prepared for their own retirement. That’s why it’s important to have a game plan.”

Don’t despair, though. Slagle suggests there are a few steps anyone can take to survive today’s pension-less retirement, including:

• Map out a retirement strategy. Often, even people who are stashing away money for retirement don’t have a firm handle on what they’re trying to accomplish. Slagle says it brings to mind the old saying: “If you don’t know where you’re going, how will you know when you get there?” Having a strategy helps you know your ultimate goal and what you need to do to accomplish it. Once you develop a strategy, you also need to remember that conditions don’t always remain the same. Changes in your income and expenses, along with fluctuating market conditions, can all have an impact on your plan. Slagle recommends that about every three years you review and, if necessary, update your strategy.
• Live within your means. It’s difficult to save a comfortable retirement nest egg when you’re spending more than you earn and racking up debt. Create a budget and stick to it.
• Don’t ignore the cost of health care in retirement. Perhaps people just assume they will be healthy forever. Or maybe they just don’t think about this subject. Either way, Slagle says, too many of them don’t plan for or underestimate how much health care could end up costing them. It’s been estimated that a 65-year-old couple who retired in 2014 would need about $220,000 to cover health care in retirement. So you need to work it into the equation.
• Remember to account for inflation. Just when you think you’ve saved enough – you haven’t saved enough. At least you didn’t if you failed to take inflation into account. The cost of living is going to go up. That means the value of the dollars you saved is going to go down. “You need to factor that in when you plan for your financial future,” Slagle says.
• Prepare for the possibility of long-term care. This is another cost that many people don’t plan for, but the necessity of long-term care is a reality at some point for 70 percent of people over 65. The average annual cost of a private nursing-home room is $77,000, so it’s unwise to overlook it, Slagle says.

“You need to start thinking about all this now, whether retirement is decades away or a few years away,” Slagle says. “The sooner you begin saving and planning, the greater the odds are that you’ll have a happy and secure retirement.”

About Chad Slagle

Chad Slagle (www.slaglefinancial.com) is president of Slagle Financial, LLC, a Registered Investment Advisor. He and his wife, April, reside in Edwardsville, Ill., with their two sons and two daughters, Grayson, Mabry, Hudson, and Nola.

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San Cristobal Quintessence Tasting Event at Tobacco Shop of Ridgewood

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November 18,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, the Tobacco Shop of Ridgewood will host a San Cristobal Quintessence tasting event on December 7th 2016 from 6:30 to 9:30 pm for the cost of $20.

Celebrated cigar-maker Jose “Pepin” Garcia embraces his remarkable talents as a world-class blender with San Cristobal Quintessence. Drawn from a luscious Ecuador Habano wrapper and the finest, premium aged binder and filler tobaccos grown on the Garcia family estates, Quintessence is patiently rolled in Pepin’s immaculate factory in Estelí, Nicaragua, in four classic formats. Captivating notes of molasses, coffee and black pepper intrigue the palate with a placid sweetness. Hints of dried fruit, figs and sugarcane gather in wonderful proportion to culminating spices. Cool, civil aromas emanate throughout a medium to full-bodied finish. San Cristobal Quintessence exemplifies Pepin’s rise to prominence with tasteful indulgence.

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Federation of Independent Businesses: Consumers plan to spend record amounts at small businesses during this year’s Small Business Saturday

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November 18,2016

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New Jersey NJ, Across the country, small businesses and consumers alike are getting excited to support their favorite local, independent businesses on Small Business Saturday, which takes place this year on November 26th. Results from the fifth-annual Small Business Saturday Consumer Insights Survey, released today by the National Federation of Independent Businesses (NFIB) and American Express, show that more consumers than ever are aware of Small Business Saturday (58% vs. the previous high of 55% in 2015). More than six in ten (62%) consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to shop locally on the day say the main reason they plan to shop at small retailers or eat at independently-owned restaurants is because they value the contributions small businesses make to their community.

“Small Business Saturday reminds consumers of how valuable small businesses are to our communities, and we are incredibly proud to be the founding partner.”

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“Since its inception, Small Business Saturday has brought national attention to supporting the local businesses we love,” said Elizabeth Rutledge, Executive Vice President, Global Advertising & Brand Management at American Express, which founded Small Business Saturday in 2010. “Small Business Saturday reminds consumers of how valuable small businesses are to our communities, and we are incredibly proud to be the founding partner.”

Held annually on the Saturday following Thanksgiving, Small Business Saturday was founded by American Express as a response to small business owners’ most pressing need: getting more customers through their doors, rallying communities to support local businesses and helping kick off a successful holiday sales period.

Planning to Put Their Money Where Their Mouth Is

Of consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday, 89% agree that the day encourages them to Shop Small all year long, not just during the holiday season. Nearly eight in ten (79%) consumers say they are willing to pay slightly more for an item if it is purchased from a small, independently-owned retailer as opposed to online or at a large retailer – on par with last year. And just how much are they planning to spend? Of those who are aware of Small Business Saturday and planning to shop and dine on the day, two-thirds (67%) say that they plan to spend at least $100 at small businesses on Small Business Saturday – a slight increase from 2015 (65%).

Among U.S. consumers, the Small Business Saturday Consumer Insights Survey found:

On average, one-third (33%) of their holiday shopping this year is expected to be done at small retailers or restaurants – on par with last year.
76% say they will visit at least one small business as part of their overall holiday shopping, on par with last year.
Additionally, 91% reported that supporting small, independently-owned bars and restaurants is important to them.

“Small businesses across the nation are often run by the friends, family and neighbors that we know so well, so supporting them is not only personal but critical to their success,” said NFIB CEO and President Juanita Duggan. “Partnering with American Express to promote the awareness and importance of shopping small is something we are very proud of, and this year, we look forward to another successful Small Business Saturday.”

Additional findings from the Small Business Saturday Consumer Insights Survey include:

63% of consumers who are willing to pay slightly more for an item if purchased from a small, independently-owned retailer as opposed to online or at a large retailer say that in exchange for paying a higher price, they expect better customer service from small, independently-owned businesses.
Nearly half (48%) of consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to Shop Small on the day say they expect to spend more on Small Business Saturday this year than last year – up from 45% in 2015, and the highest amount yet recorded.
Consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to shop on the day say they plan to support many different types of small businesses on the day, including clothing/accessories/shoe stores (45%), restaurants/bars/pubs (41%) and bakeries (39%).

Neighborhood Champions and the Small Business Saturday Coalition Drive Excitement for the Day

Grassroots support for Small Business Saturday is largely driven by Neighborhood Champions, a program of advocates for Small Business Saturday comprised of small businesses, business associations, local Chambers of Commerce and other community organizers who help to rally their neighborhoods on the day. To date, more than 6,400 Neighborhood Champions – an increase of 56% percent from 2015 – have signed up to plan activities and events to draw consumers to commercial districts across the U.S., leading up to and on Small Business Saturday. In fact, 45% of consumers who are aware of Small Business Saturday and who plan to shop say they plan to attend a community event in celebration of the day.

Another important group that drives participation on the day is the Small Business Saturday Coalition. Led by Women Impacting Public Policy (WIPP), the Small Business Saturday Coalition was created in 2011 to help amplify the Shop Small message. The Coalition is comprised of national, state and local associations that help coordinate Small Business Saturday activities with merchants, consumers and small business owners.

Show Your Love for Small Businesses on Social Media

Each year consumers have made it a tradition to share their Small Business Saturday experiences on social media. This year, consumers and small businesses across the nation are encouraged to show their love for their favorite independent businesses by using the #ShopSmall, #SmallBizSat and #DineSmall hashtags on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

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Reader says The taxpayers don’t want any garage on Hudson street

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We should be honest about what is driving this endless discussion.Note last massively expensive boondoggle on Hudson Street which took an unprecedented Referendum that our own Mayor and management was
Involved in those petitions and steering.

The taxpayers don’t want any garage on Hudson street..it will be a money crime and urban blight as any transit center garage becomes..look at any similar models.It will attract out of towners to flog our streets with transitional commuters not interested in most businesses outside of Coffee grab and go small shops near the train station.

ReLine and pave the existing surface lots at Hudson,Cottage place and the central district lots . Allocate some employee parking and incent those
Employers to enforce that accommodation .yes and everyone will have a walk a bit more that’s the Vallet services who wisk those visitors away
from ridgewood despite the dreams of the small shops to attract walking
Customers who might take a look or pick up a specialty item on the way to their cars parked on surface lots or God forbid at the train station on weekends that almost always have visitor and resident parking after six.

My priority is not to make the restaurants happy on my dime/taxes and fees in ridgewood drive the Boomers to cash out and leave.Lets get a grip on this endless parking discussion..no less the possible housing boondoggles that Englewood Morristown and other Towns have suffered

We don’t want to be a Transit Village,we want to be a smarter Ridgewood
Town leaders figure this out and out Taxpayer first( not restaurants for a change ) lets wish our new management Luck.Middle ground solutions needed..Uber logistics on short trips is taking over the world.

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CEO Rick Claydon to Retire from the Ridgewood YMCA after 40 years of service

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November 19,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, Chief Executive Officer, Rick Claydon, announced his decision to conclude his forty year tenure at the Ridgewood YMCA effective December 31, 2016. Claydon has served as Ridgewood YMCA CEO for the last twenty four years.

YMCA Board President Michael Davis said, “We’re incredibly grateful to Rick for all that he has accomplished at the YMCA and thank him for his many years of dedicated service to the community”.

“I am proud and thankful to have served this YMCA and this community since I began as a Y instructor in 1976,” Claydon said. “For more than four decades, I’ve been honored to build relationships with so many talented and committed volunteers, staff, donors and community partners, who have supported, guided and encouraged me throughout my career. More importantly, they’ve strengthened the very foundation of this community by bringing incredible programs and services to so many.”

The Ridgewood YMCA has served the community since 1902 and today engages over twenty thousand adults and children annually from its Oak Street location and Camp Bernie resident camp. The Y also continues to grow its annual giving campaign each year in an effort to meet the needs of the community and insure that its vital programming and services are available to all those who need them.

 

Dear Friends,

After 40 years at the Ridgewood YMCA, including twenty four years as CEO, I have announced my decision to retire from the Y, effective December 31, 2016.

I am so proud and thankful to have served this YMCA and this community since I began as a Y instructor in 1976.

For more than four decades, I’ve been honored to build relationships with so many talented and committed volunteers, staff, donors and community partners, who have supported, guided and encouraged me throughout my career. More importantly, they’ve strengthened the very foundation of this community by bringing incredible programs and services to so many.

The Ridgewood YMCA has served the community since 1902 and today engages over twenty thousand adults and children annually from its Oak Street location and Camp Bernie resident camp. The Y also continues to grow its annual giving campaign each year in an effort to meet the needs of the community, and insure that its vital programming and services are available to all those who need them. I am confident that the Y will continue to thrive and flourish under the new leadership of Ernest Lamour.

I would also like to this opportunity to acknowledge John Duke, Assistant Branch Director of the Y, who will also be retiring at the end of this year. After 32 years at the Y, John is a familiar face and friend to so many in the community and I would like to thank him for his exceptional service to our organization and to the community.

Lastly, I would like to thank everyone who has supported the Ridgewood YMCA throughout my many years here. It is the people of this community that make the YMCA such a special place and allow us to do what we do, furthering our cause in the areas of youth development, healthy living and social responsibility.

Sincerely,

Rick Claydon

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Ridgewood beats back Montclair 31-20 With 4th Quarter Come from Behind Victory

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November 19,2016
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Ridgewood NJ, the Ridgewood Maroons scored 24 unanswered fourth quarter points to defeat Montclair, 31-20, preserving their undefeated season at the North Jersey, Section 1, Group 5 semifinals at Ridgewood.
Ridgewood will now take on third-seeded Passaic Tech in the sectional final on the weekend of Dec. 2-4. Last year in the final Passaic Tech beat Ridgewood, 27-0.

Montclair had led 14-7 at halftime behind its explosive offense and very opportunistic defense. Down 20-7 in the fourth quarter , Ridgewood Quarterback Jack Barclay connected with Drew Granski on a 54-yard touchdown reception  making it a 20-14 game. With that ,the momentum shifted to the Maroons recovering a fumble on the first play from scrimmage on Montclair’s ensuing possession then ,scoring another touchdown .

The Ridgewood defense forced a punt by Montclair and then on a 3rd-and-8 from the Montclair 48, Barclay connected with Dan Romero for a 35-yard catch.Zach Feagles finished the drive with his second five-yard score to put Ridgewood ahead 28-20. Another fumble by Montclair was just icing on the cake giving Ridgewood a field goal to pull out a win .
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Ridgewood seeking solutions to parking problems

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Mark Krulish , Staff Writer, @Mark_Krulish5:44 p.m. EST November 17, 2016

The Ridgewood Village Council last week defeated an ordinance that would have restored parking on one side of Pomander Walk during the day, but the need for a comprehensive solution to the parking problem in the area remains, according to village officials.

During discussion at the Nov. 9 council meeting, Deputy Mayor Michael Sedon said the council needed to conduct a study that would look at the broader picture in the area, rather than focusing on one or two streets, a sentiment echoed by Councilman Ramon Hache.

https://www.northjersey.com/story/news/bergen/ridgewood/2016/11/17/ridgewood-seeking-parking-solutions/93965952/

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Ridgewood : Is Grandma being scammed?

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November 18th 2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, Do you have any relatives over age 65? Have they been warned about the grandma scam?

Here’s how the grandma scam works: A call from a younger person is made to the targeted older person, often at night, after the aging person is asleep. Half awake, grandma answers the phone and the scammer claims to be the grandchild who says he’s in trouble and he needs financial help. Grandma is concerned and wires cash to the scammer. It often times takes days until she realizes she has been scammed.

What’s the takeaway: Your relatives can be easily tricked under the right circumstances. Wanting a call from grandkids is the starting point for scammers and they are triggered by an emotional response to the plea for help.

Millions of dollars are lost this way, in smaller amounts at a time. One way to combat the scam is to be prepared to ask the caller a question only a real grandchild would know: the name of a pet, a parent’s birth date or a nickname.

That’s where Carolyn Rosenblatt, a registered nurse and elder law attorney, and Dr. Mikol Davis, a geriatric psychologist, come in. Rosenblatt and Davis, co-authors of The Family Guide to Aging Parents: Answers to Your Legal, Financial, and Healthcare Questions (www.agingparents.com) and Succeed with Senior Clients: A Financial Advisor’s Guide to Best Practices (www.aginginvestor.com), can provide comments for articles you are working on or write exclusive articles on this topic for your publication.

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How To Help Children Stay Off The Naughty List Year-Round

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November 18,2016

the staff of the Ridgewood blog

Ridgewood NJ, It’s that time of year again when beleaguered parents constantly remind disobedient children that it’s more important than ever to do the right thing.

Otherwise, they could end up on Santa’s notorious naughty list – the one specially reserved for kids who fight with siblings, refuse to do their homework, throw temper tantrums and don’t eat their vegetables.

While banishment to the naughty list has long been a handy tool in the disciplinary arsenal, any responsible parent wants their children to be good the rest of the year, too, when the threat of empty stockings holds less sway over those impressionable minds.

“I suspect most children deep down want to do the right thing, but they struggle with temptation,” says K.J. Hales, author of It’s Hard to Be Good, the first volume in the Ellie the Wienerdog (www.elliethewienerdog.com) series of educational picture books for children.

“A lot of it comes down to self-control – being able to control both your emotions and your actions when things don’t go your way or you don’t get what you want.”

Hales, who creates teachers’ guides and educational activities to go along with the lessons in her books, says the earlier parents start teaching children to do the right thing, the better.

She says some of the ways they can reinforce good behavior and discourage bad behavior include:

• Be generous with praise. Don’t underestimate the importance of your words. It’s easy to notice when children do the wrong thing and to chastise them about it. But take note when they do the right thing, too, and praise their good choices or good behavior.  “Everyone loves words of approval and children will want to please you as a result,” Hales says.
• Make good choices a fun activity. One way to encourage good decisions could be to set aside one week in which each day you ask your children to write or draw about a good decision they made or they saw someone else make. Hales says this is an activity she suggests for classroom teachers, but it can work in the home as well. Be sure to discuss those good decisions with the children.
• Reward them. Discipline so often focuses on punishments for bad behavior, but children should also be rewarded for good behavior. This doesn’t have to be anything elaborate or expensive. A reward could be a picnic in the park or a favorite dessert after dinner.

“I’m sure every parent wants their child to gain independence, grow emotionally and learn to make good decisions about their own behavior,” Hales says. “And this is important 365 days a year, not just in the weeks before Santa Claus comes to town.”

About K.J. Hales

K.J. Hales (www.ellietheweinerdog.com) is author of the Ellie the Wienerdog series of educational children’s books for children. The first volume in the series is It’s Hard to Be Good. The Ellie character is based on Hales’ own dachshund also named Ellie.